This seemed to be the best place to put this.
Today is packing the car ready for an early start home tomorrow. Had not been able to visit Mum because of you know what. Cannot wait to get away from here. Mum and dad always raised me that everyone was equal regardless of skin colour, religion, orientation or anything else. Now it is a constant battle not to say anything because she is constantly moaning about too many gays on TV, too many people of colour on TV etc. She would like a British doctor but that means a white british doctor. Absolutely drives us mad! I know as you get older you get a bit, er, crotchety but this is weapons grade stuff.
Try to do thing to help but nothing is good enough. Try to help with paper work and filing it but it ends up being a mess within minutes. She needs a hearing aid but doesn't wear it. She isn't deaf but needs a bit of help. Me: Do you want a coffee? Her:
Me: DO YOU WANT A COFFEE? Her: No need to shout.... Watching TV... She has got a 65" TV so you can definitely see it. She has a sound bar with it and that is on near max, then she has subtitles on and then she zooms the TV image too so you only see the middle bit! Why? Battery in hearing aid is deaf. Puts a new one in but still wont use it!
Asks how to do something on her iPad but doesn't actually listen or look whilst you show her. She isn't going dotty or anything and there are no signs of any mental issues. She has just become this crabby old woman who you can never please no matter what you do!
Try do other things to help but cannot do anything yet if one of her friends suggests something then that is the only way to do some thing.
So we are really looking forward to going home for a rest! I know this all sounds bad but it is really hard work. Even going shopping was a titanic drama.
OK, rant over.